Baby Wearing: Photo

Africans have been wearing their new born long before, the white folks copied it. how pretty is this picture

Cloth Diapers, Nappies & More

Babies get through nappies at a startling rate and, as they grow so quickly, they seem to be constantly changing clothing size. With babies growing at different rates and being different sizes to start with, how can you ensure you get the right fit of nappies and baby clothes?

Nappies
These days there are so many different nappies on the market that it’s hard to know where to start! The two main types of nappies are disposable and real cloth nappies, but within both these types there are all sorts of different sizes, fits and cuts.

Some nappies are sold to fit babies from birth to potty training age, whereas others have different age guidelines on them. Although the idea of one size fits all from birth to potty training may work for some, it’s inevitable that as babies grow, the fit of a nappy will change and it may be better and more comfortable to move to a bigger size.

Buying the most suitably sized nappy for the age of your baby will help you make sure you get the right fit. The sizes used on nappies vary depending on the manufacturer, as different brands use different sizing. As a rough guide, some of the big nappy manufacturers use numbers to represent the sizes and tie it in with the weight of a baby. For example:

Size 1 – suitable for newborn babies weighing 2-5kg / 4-11lbs

Size 2 – suitable for newborn babies weighing 3-6kg / 7-12lbs

Size 3 – suitable for babies weighing 5-9kg / 11-20lbs

Size 4 – suitable for babies weighing 8-14kg / 18-31lbs

Size 5 – suitable for babies weighing 12kg+ / 27lbs+

The above should only be used as a rough guide, as you’ll find the exact weights and sizes do vary considerably between different brands and different types of nappies. In order to achieve the best fit of nappy for your baby, it’s worth trying out some different brands and seeing what seems to work best. Then as your baby grows, you can move up through the different sizes until they eventually grow out of nappies altogether.

Baby Clothes
On the surface, baby clothes may seem a simple matter. Like clothes for adults, they’re sold in set sizes, but with more increments and different sizes available. When your baby is newborn, you buy newborn clothes, and as they grow you move up to the next size.

In theory, it sounds easy, but like adults, babies grow at different rates and are born weighing varying amounts. So what fits snugly on one baby, may not fit so well on another.

The key to getting the right fit with baby clothes is to be guided in part by the clothes sizing, but not rigidly. If you’re buying clothes before your baby is born, try and avoid buying tons of items for 0-3 month olds, as it’s hard to know exactly how big your baby will be when born. Whilst some tiny babies happily wear age 0-3 month clothes for the full three months, others may quickly grow out of them or even find they’re not that well fitting when they’re first born.

By all means do stock up on some essential items, but don’t go mad and buy loads, as you may find they don’t fit rather more rapidly than you’d imagined. Choosing some 3-6 month old clothes may be worthwhile and give a bit more growing space.

Some parents feel a bit embarrassed to be buying clothes aimed at older babies when they’re still young and nowhere near the size guideline. However, there’s no need to feel embarrassed. It’s better that your baby wears comfortable, well fitting clothes, rather then being squashed into something that doesn’t fit, and if that means purchasing items aimed at older babies, then so be it. After all, the sizes are only there as a guideline and can vary considerably between different clothing brands and styles.

Mama, my friend and confidant

By MissMaxy www.missmaxy.blogspot.com

She's prayed with me in the wee hours of the night
She's hugged me and wiped my tears
She's given me advice and spoken words of wisdom
Her faith has carried me through
Her beliefs have challenged mine
Her life has been a living example to me
Oh mother of mine who feels my pain
Mother dearest who weeps and griefs with me
Mother who's empathy is beyond my understanding
May all who have an encounter with you
Know the love you give without reservation
May those who have none get to know mine
I pray for love as deep and passionate as yours for my child

Pregnancy & Birth Myths in Ghana

Here are some myths about birth and pregnancy i found online

 

• Eating eggs during pregnancy may cause a baby's skull to be too soft, which will cause headaches in the future.
• Eating too many apples during pregnancy will cause the baby to grow too fat for birth.
• Having intercourse during pregnancy may cause blindness; the belief is that semen will be deposited on the fetus' eyes and cause blindness.
• Eating meat during pregnancy will cause a child to grow to be a thief.
• At birth hot compresses may be applied to a baby's skull to deliberately mold the baby's skull to give it a "special" shape.
• At birth hot compresses and herbal concoctions may be placed on a baby's skull to close the fontanel; it is believed that the open fontanel is caused by sickness.
• Female babies are douched with warm water, sometimes hot water, because of a belief that the vulva is sore after birth.
• Because women do not know how to properly position and attach babies on the breast, infants often suffer from marasmus, or protein-energy starvation; women believe that this condition is a spiritual affliction given to the baby while in utero.
• Many women, even those who intend to breastfeed exclusively, believe that when a baby hiccups he or she needs water to stop the hiccups.
• During labor when a mother's body is massaged the blood vessels in the baby's eyes may rupture, causing blood to collect in his or her eyes.
• A common belief is that at eight months the fetus dissolves into blood and at nine months it reforms before birth. Therefore, some women believe that having an abortion at eight months is safe. This practice often results in death.
• Women have expressed the belief that when they vomit during labor that they are vomiting amniotic fluid.
• Many women insert herbs into the vagina to deliberately dry the natural vaginal secretions with the view that men will enjoy intercourse more; this practice increases the risk of lacerations and thereby transmission of HIV.
• Some women have expressed the belief that when they use an IUD for family planning the device may travel to their heart and cause heart problems.
• Women often believe that the symptoms of menopause are caused by a spiritual curse.
• Some HIV-infected men will seek out sexual relations with virgins; they believe that HIV can be cured through intercourse with a virgin.
• Men often believe that the gender of their baby is determined by the mother, which causes conflict when his desires are not met.
• Some women believe that their fertile vaginal mucous secretions, which appear during ovulation, are a sign of infection and therefore make a conscious effort to wash and dry away the secretions. This causes some women to have difficulty conceiving.